Rapunzel Shadow Work: Overcoming Isolation and Reclaiming Your Voice
Updated: Sep 25
Rapunzel is trapped in a tower by a powerful sorceress. The tower has no doors and no stairs—only a tiny, high-up window looking out into a deep, silent forest.
On the surface, the tower was built to keep her safe. In reality, it serves to completely isolate her.
Yet, the story actually begins long before the tower—it starts with something else the sorceress was desperate to protect: the Rapunzel herbs in her garden. She built a sky-high wall around them for a reason, but someone still breaks in and steals them in the middle of the night. Caught red-handed, the thief experiences the witch's pure malice. Overwhelmed by terror, the father submits completely, trading his unborn child just to avoid her wrath.
Building Towers in Our Inner Landscape
It isn't hard to see how this dynamic plays out in our own inner worlds. The shadow work here in the story of Rapunzel is asking what is in the tower?
When something we love or try to protect gets hurt or taken, we build a wall. If that wall feels insufficient, we build a tower deep in the woods and lock that part of ourselves away—a hidden place where no one else is allowed in.
In my own life, I locked my creative child away. She was the child who was laughed at for writing poetry—embarrassed, rejected, and determined never to let that happen again. I created a fierce internal protector to shield me from ridicule. But over time, I realised that my protector wasn't actually keeping me safe; she was keeping me completely cut off.
(Just like Snow White taking refuge in the dwarfs' cottage or Vasilisa entering the wild woods, Rapunzel's tower represents a crucial stage in our journey of self-discovery—learn more in our Complete Guide to Fairytale Shadow Work: The Snow White Journey or read our deep dive on Vasilisa and the Good Girl Conditioning).
You can see how this plays out in our inner worlds. Something we tried to protect gets taken and we build a wall. But that wasn't high enough. So we build a tower deep in the woods and lock that thing away. A part of us that won't let anyone in.
4 Symbolic Elements of the Rapunzel Story
When working through this tale in our SpeakEasy Journaling Club, four distinct archetypal images stood out:
1. The Walled Garden (Repressed Desires)
Before Rapunzel is born, her pregnant mother sees a walled garden from her window and develops a craving for rapunzel herbs so intense she feels she will die without them. Setting pregnancy cravings aside: What have we walled off from ourselves because it felt too dangerous or unacceptable for a "Good Girl" to want?
2. The Tower (Self-Isolation)
The tower represents total removal. It is where we lock away our wildness, voice, or creativity so our "Good Girl" persona can play nice and remain accepted.
3. Letting Down Your Hair (Opening to Vulnerability)
When the prince calls up to the tower, Rapunzel lowers her hair and opens her small window to a whole new world. Letting down your hair means taking a risk, letting someone in, and stepping out of emotional isolation.
4. The Blind Prince (Navigating the Wilderness)
After being cast out, the prince wanders the wilderness blind until he hears Rapunzel's song and follows it. This reminds us of following intuition: we don't always find what we are looking for where we expect it, but our inner voice leads us home.
Rapunzel Shadow Work Journal Prompts
Grab your journal, take a deep breath, and explore what comes up for you with these prompts:
Prompt 1: The Walled Garden. What is one desire, boundary, or dream you have walled off because you were afraid of being "too much" or being rejected?
Prompt 2: The Inner Tower. In what areas of your life are you currently isolating yourself to feel safe? Is that tower still protecting you, or is it keeping you cut off?
Prompt 3: Your Inner Voice Rapunzel’s song is what allowed the prince to find her in the wilderness. How can you give your natural, creative voice more permission to be heard this week?
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I love this Gillian, it was such a powerful session and so many really interesting questions, that I'll continue pondering for a while yet. I hear a bit of Fortress Era energy coming through too!